Treat A Lady Right!

I was watching 106 & Park, and came in on a conversation about what I think was how men should view women based on how they present themselves.  So the one guy is all relaxed and laid out on the "couch" while saying that a woman should be treated how she dresses, and that she won't get any respect if she gives "it" up on the first night!

I sure don't believe that all women should be diserespected if they sleep with someone the first night they meet, but she should be watched closely, especially if she is someone who you plan to spend the evening with for an intimate encounter... in fact, one should keep a keen eye on whoever he or she chooses to "mate" with.

Some men fake it to get a woman in bed for the night (the first night they meet), and as an attempt to save face, they turn their back on the woman, showing disrespect just as fast (or even faster) as they came up talking game to her.  If he stayed in his own zone instead of trying to compete with others to be with a woman he lacks the know-how to keep, he wouldn't sleep with the woman, but what about when the woman denies him?  Does he disrespect her anyway to save face from her denial?  He might, but he'd be wrong anyway.  Just as he yearns for respect when he enters the room, so should a woman respect herself enough that she knows her place in the world; for by knowing this, she knows who to look for and who to look "out" for.

For you gentlemen, stay in your lane.  Every man isn't designed to sleep with a bunch of women.  you have your alphas and your gammas, your reds and your blues, your yin and your yang (if you will).  Some men are better equipped to handle more than one woman, and if you don't think you are, then you should stick to the plan of being with one woman.  Those that can handle multiple women have entered "Females 101" and it is a simple course, should you decide to take it.

Love a woman, respect a woman for what she has, and protect a woman from harm.  Be a real man for you women!

And for you women, be more discretionary when looking for your men... control your urges (Men, as well!)! :)

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